An open letter to my husband in our 10th year of marriage

Dear husband, It’s been 10 years.  Yes, I know!  I can’t believe it either!  We’ve been together for longer, although we often debate the actual amount of time (there is a dispute about when we were officially dating).  It’s been a wild ride, and we’ve shared a lot of ups and downs.  But lately, I … More An open letter to my husband in our 10th year of marriage

The last day

And so I have found myself at my last day of maternity leave.  I am beside myself.  I don’t know what to do first.  I felt bad, too, because I was so upset that I took it out on my husband this morning.  I normally don’t see him mornings because if the baby wakes up … More The last day

8 reasons why I won’t have sex with you tonight.

 I am just too fucking tired.  I have had a long day (week, month, quarter) and I just can’t even think about taking my clothes off for more than getting into comfy clothes and passing out, face-down in my bed.  I’m sorry, but it’s just NOT happening. I’ve reached the point of no return.  We … More 8 reasons why I won’t have sex with you tonight.