An open letter to my husband in our 10th year of marriage

Dear husband, It’s been 10 years.  Yes, I know!  I can’t believe it either!  We’ve been together for longer, although we often debate the actual amount of time (there is a dispute about when we were officially dating).  It’s been a wild ride, and we’ve shared a lot of ups and downs.  But lately, I … More An open letter to my husband in our 10th year of marriage

8 reasons why I won’t have sex with you tonight.

 I am just too fucking tired.  I have had a long day (week, month, quarter) and I just can’t even think about taking my clothes off for more than getting into comfy clothes and passing out, face-down in my bed.  I’m sorry, but it’s just NOT happening. I’ve reached the point of no return.  We … More 8 reasons why I won’t have sex with you tonight.

The things I have given up on as a parent. (Seriously, spend your time elsewhere.)

There are a few things I’ve realized in the 5 years I have been a parent.  Yes, I am not seasoned by any means, but I have noticed some things just aren’t worth your time with small children.  At. All.  So save it for something else more worthwhile. Vacuuming. I would love to think that … More The things I have given up on as a parent. (Seriously, spend your time elsewhere.)

Why staying at home is just as exhausting as going to work

We’ve had two snow days so far, over a weekend (so a four day weekend).  I am not complaining whatsoever.  The kids have been great (so far) and I don’t mind not having to go anywhere when it’s like this.  But to keep their interest and keep them happy, I’ve been run ragged.  We’ve crafted … More Why staying at home is just as exhausting as going to work