I’m not where I thought I’d be 11 years into my marriage.

I looked at the calendar today, and if it wasn’t for a Google repeated reminder my husband set years ago, it may not have been on my radar.  It’s our 11 year anniversary this coming Saturday.  I’m not sure if it’s because we’ve celebrated a few times over the course of the past few years … More I’m not where I thought I’d be 11 years into my marriage.

An open letter to my husband in our 10th year of marriage

Dear husband, It’s been 10 years.  Yes, I know!  I can’t believe it either!  We’ve been together for longer, although we often debate the actual amount of time (there is a dispute about when we were officially dating).  It’s been a wild ride, and we’ve shared a lot of ups and downs.  But lately, I … More An open letter to my husband in our 10th year of marriage

8 reasons why I won’t have sex with you tonight.

 I am just too fucking tired.  I have had a long day (week, month, quarter) and I just can’t even think about taking my clothes off for more than getting into comfy clothes and passing out, face-down in my bed.  I’m sorry, but it’s just NOT happening. I’ve reached the point of no return.  We … More 8 reasons why I won’t have sex with you tonight.