The last day

And so I have found myself at my last day of maternity leave.  I am beside myself.  I don’t know what to do first.  I felt bad, too, because I was so upset that I took it out on my husband this morning.  I normally don’t see him mornings because if the baby wakes up … More The last day

8 reasons why I won’t have sex with you tonight.

 I am just too fucking tired.  I have had a long day (week, month, quarter) and I just can’t even think about taking my clothes off for more than getting into comfy clothes and passing out, face-down in my bed.  I’m sorry, but it’s just NOT happening. I’ve reached the point of no return.  We … More 8 reasons why I won’t have sex with you tonight.

What is wrong with maternity leave in America?

Everything.  After going to my six-week check-up, my doctor didn’t offer me any more time.  And even before I had the baby, she informed me that by medical standards, they can’t guarantee any more than six weeks for regular delivery and eight weeks for a c-section.  Seriously??  That is enough time to recuperate physically AND … More What is wrong with maternity leave in America?

Finally, an answer

We have it figured out.  After breastfeeding for six weeks and several poop samples later, my youngest has been diagnosed with a milk and/or soy allergy.  They had a 50/50 shot at having it, and we knew it.  Our other two kiddos had it, and both my husband and I had milk allergies as babies. We … More Finally, an answer

Halfway point

So I am reaching what I believe to be the halfway point of my maternity leave.  And I am falling deeper into a depression about it.  I thought I’d be bored or annoyed by crying and or feeling like I am not getting anything done, but instead, I am loving it. This is vastly different … More Halfway point